Weekend Wildcard: It’s All About Me

1 WILDCARDIt’s a peaceful Sunday morning. Rain is drizzling outside after too long of a dry spell. The air smells fresher, the flowers are standing straighter…

and three people were killed yesterday and many more injured as a result of a white supremacist rally in Charlottesville, Virginia.

Oh, yeah, I forgot my precautionary statement:

WARNING! I’m writing about controversial topics today. Those who don’t want to read about my concerns, fears, anger, righteousness or whatever else might come up, please feel free to pass on today’s post.

No judgment. I’d likely pass on reading many people’s opinions, too, especially if they didn’t mirror my own. And I’d much rather read (and write!) about the nice relaxed Sunday morning I’m spending with a strong cup of cold brew, contented pets napping on the sofa, and a cool breeze coming in through the open windows. But I’m writing about divisiveness and responsibility instead.

I’m not a person of color, a military veteran, physically disabled, or of a minority race. I’m not a Democrat or a Republican. I’m not wealthy. I’m not poor. I vote, but it isn’t really anybody’s business as to whom I vote for. That is, after all, why voting is confidential in the United States.

I’m a middle class, straight, white ‘merican. Privileged to the hilt. Some might think I don’t “get it” when it comes to the horrible discrimination and bigotry engulfing the world today. That’s okay, though, because


“It” is about the current state of affairs in the USA, in the world, in Charlottesville, VA and in the town I call home. “It” is about violence, prejudice, hatred and all the –phobias. It’s about freedom… of religion, of speech, of political ideology; the right to tote guns around if one so desires, and the right to walk down a street with a reasonable expectation that one won’t be gunned down.

“It” is about morality, human decency, equality, compassion, working in unity for the betterment of all.

The more I think about “it,” the more I realize

It’s ALL about me.

And it’s all about you. It’s about your neighbor and your fellow citizens and the immigrant family down the street, and the citizens and families in other countries that might be wondering when and from which direction the nuclear bombs will soon be coming.

I have all the answers to all these issues, and so do you. Most likely they’re not the same answers, maybe not even by a long shot. But we must look for answers, discuss “it,” and search for common ground, common decency, and common sense in addressing “it.” Because you and I – no matter how we are sliced and diced in societal definitions and identities – are the only ones who can find and lead the way through these self-created mires.

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Today I will do something – something with love and rationality and peaceful intention; something towards stopping violence and hate. I ask that you do something likewise.

Today, as I sit in my cozy home enjoying the privileges of freedoms and presumed safety that I so often take for granted, I will remember with gratitude those who have made and continue to make them possible.

Today I will honor those killed in defending human kindness, and I will mourn the fact that such defense is even necessary.

Tomorrow I will write about the cooling breeze and the freshness of the cleansing rain. And I will repeat today’s commitments. Because that is the only way humanity can be redeemed.

About Maggie C

Stained glass artist, writer, respecter of life.
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4 Responses to Weekend Wildcard: It’s All About Me

  1. Peggy Lemmer says:

    Yes! It is all about human decency and human rights. Our country was based on the right of freedom for everyone with the assumption that all mankind had certain unalienable rights. This began in the Declaration of Independence: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” We wrote a Constitution to uphold those rights that began: “We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.” Those who wish to deny these rights to certain peoples for their own personal reasons are technically not upholding the basis of our constitution and are rejecting the basic premise of our country. Oh, and I’m glad this isn’t FB, or I might get arrested for believing in the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution of the United States. 🙂

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    • Maggie C says:

      I wonder how many of those tiki-torch-carrying nationalists have ever read the constitution. I wonder how many neo-nazis have any clue about what ideology they are claiming as their own. Or is it just a game of dress-up for those who want to wear combat boots without having to face combat, who want to hide behind their toy shields and pretend they stand for something? Oh, wait. I’m supposed to take the high road today. I guess this morning’s Kumbaya has worn off.


      • Peggy Lemmer says:

        The more I have thought about it, the more I am back to the fact that it is really all about hate and fear. Some humans just prefer to hate. Those people find fear the best tool to create that hateful environment that they enjoy. I don’t know that this will ever change, but humanity thrives better when hate is culturally admonished.

        Now I’m packing to take puppies to the ocean for some love and fun! 🙂

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