flame mirrored in wax softens dark, long evenings holds vigil with me




The Daily Post weekly photo challenge: It’s Not This Time of Year Without…
flame mirrored in wax softens dark, long evenings holds vigil with me




The Daily Post weekly photo challenge: It’s Not This Time of Year Without…
Susie from Susie Lindau’s Wild Ride blog has introduced a #Blessed Project on her website, aimed at encouraging us to “count our blessings,” so to speak. Her suggestion is as follows:
“Sometime between now and December 18th take a break and make a blessed project list. This will remind you of what makes you happy. We can only think about one thing at a time, so this project should hip-check negative thoughts out of your cranium for a while. Endorphins will fill the space. Can you feel it?”
I love the idea! Here is my first list of things for which I am thankful. (There may be more to follow. I have been blessed a LOT!)
I am blessed by:
abundance…

supportive family and friends…

diverse interests…

new beginnings and hope…

resilience…

strength to keep reaching toward the light…

and seasons that each bring their own beauty!

I wish you all a #blessed Thanksgiving Day and every day!
What do you count as your blessings?

If we were having coffee, I would tell you that the Accidental DIYer has struck again. The last time I suffered this affliction, my unsuspecting living room floor went from this:

to this:

and ultimately to this:

It’s still not a completed project, as the hardwood floor needs sanding and refinishing, but that’s for another day.
This week, what started out as a plan to repaint my kitchen cupboards, turned from this:

to this:

So now my little paint project has escalated to a demolition of the area around my stove, cutting down the shelving to accommodate a new range hood, putting up new backing on the wall behind the stove, rebuilding cupboards on either side of the range hood, lining the old cupboards with wood veneer, cutting cupboard doors down to new size and hanging them, installing new counter tops (I’m thinking of trying to make my own concrete counter tops)… Oh, and some painting.
I don’t know how this happens, other than to say that my toolbox is bigger than my common sense.
If we were having coffee, I would find some polite way to cut our visit short so I could get at my project. I’ve got to figure out how to move the stove away from the wall. It’s so heavy I can’t budge it at all. I’m sure I’ll come up with something. It may involve redoing the flooring.
Oh, boy. Here we go again.
#WeekendCoffeeShare is generously hosted by Diana at PartTimeMonsterBlog.com.
which came first,
the clouds dropping water
upon the ground,

or the ground water evaporating
into clouds?

did it start out as a fog,
neither of the clouds
nor of the ground?

perhaps it began as ice…

or frost…

however the magic began,
I am glad
for the way it dances

and quenches our thirst for life.

The Daily Post weekly photo challenge: Magic

when I wring my hands they lose their ability to reach out and help


If we were having coffee, I would tell you that I am trying very, very hard to not be political right now. Hillary supporters are grieving. Trump supporters are celebrating. And I’m not really sure who the people are that think vandalism and violence and rioting is the appropriate response to the presidential election results.
But I realized last night that I’m not being political at all. I’m being human. And that’s very important right now. One of the definitions Dictionary.com gives us for the word “human” is “sympathetic; humane.” I might add fallible, imperfect, visceral, discerning, emotive and perseverant to the list.
Regardless of our political stances, we are all human. And so it hurts when Starbucks puts out a drink cup design meant to represent unity, and social media trolls decry the design as a divisive political statement. Since when did unity become a Blue or Red characteristic to vilify?
And it hurts when I watch late night show host monologues of the evening after the election, and it makes me cry; not with laughter, but with sorrow. I try to cry softly so as not to upset my dog, because he doesn’t understand what’s going on. He watches me warily and worriedly, and then he comes over and jumps up to frantically lick my face as if to say, “It’s okay. Be happy! I don’t like it when you’re sad.”
And then I wonder how many parents are trying to grieve discreetly so as not to frighten their young children. And it hurts more. Much more.
If we were having coffee, I would think I should apologize for being such a downer, for being a thoughtless host for expressing my not-so-uplifting feelings. But then I would rethink, and realize that I’m just being human. And I would try to respect that you, too, are human and regardless of your thoughts and feelings about the election or the candidates or the Starbucks coffee cup, we would most likely both be humane about one another’s beliefs.
And what’s a good coffee share without honesty and respect and – if not real understanding—at least a willingness to listen. So please have another cup of coffee and I will respectfully listen as you share your honesty. After all, that’s what a thoughtful host does.
Thanks to Diana at PartTimeMonsterBlog.com for hosting the #WeekendCoffeeShare.

the sixth stage of grief acceptance may bring comfort “What’s next?” leads to hope